Most couples eventually find out they are in a multicultural relationship, meaning my “partner is different than me in more ways than I thought.”

This is because the personality styles people grow up with begin to stabilize over time and become ingrained in how they act. Sometimes this begins to be misunderstood and this is especially true when we are with the people we love and value. Please answer the following questions the way you are most of the time, not who you would like to be. This is not about changing who you are, it is about understanding who you are and how to capitalize on your attributes.

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In your relationship:
I assume my partner knows I love them without having to say it I feel it is important to say “I love you”

In your relationship:
I feel it easy and necessary to express my feelings I sometimes have a hard time expressing my feelings

When making decisions,
I let my heart lead the way I try to choose the logical answer

When communicating with my partner it is more important:
to be clear and concise and get to the point to take my time in explaining things so they will understand me

If there is a chance I might hurt my partner’s feelings by telling the truth, I will
keep it to myself or say it in a nicer way that won’t hurt them say it like it is

When my partner gives me a birthday card, I like one that is:
creative and imaginative sweet and romantic

When I do things with my partner I prefer to:
have things planned out be spontaneous

When my partner and I go on a vacation I would like to:
wait until we get there and then decide what to do have a plan in mind about our activities

In my relationship it is more important that:
we have a strong sense of what is right and wrong we have fun and excitement

When my partner and I go out to a function,
I don’t worry too much if we are late I need to be on time

When seeking a partner it was more important
to see if they are trustworthy and honest see if we have common interests to share in

In my relationship it is more important for me to be:
charming and impulsive loyal, prepared and dependable

When choosing a spouse I believe it is more important to choose
someone who will make me think someone who is fun to be around

When it comes to discussing important issues with my partner I like to think that I am quite:
Open minded Knowledgeable

When putting together something mechanical for my spouse,
I am curious to know how it works I could care less how it works, just as long as it does

When trying to fix a problem in my relationship I would probably:
just try and fix it by trial and error buy a book and read up on the topic

In a new relationship I would be more likely to:
take some time and evaluate the person jump right in and have fun

When I communicate with my spouse I tend to act:
more informal and playful more formal and instructive

I would prefer that the person I choose to spend the rest of my life with would be:
a sensible spouse a clever and smart companion

In my relationships it is important for me to:
be seen as calm, cool, and collected be faithful, stable and organized

When it comes to problems in relationships, I like to look for:
solutions that we have used before successfully new ways to resolve our issues

When thinking about my relationship I often think about:
what we will do in the future what we are doing in the present

When it comes to special times such as holidays,
I like to plan parties and events around those occasions don’t really care if we do that much

When my partner wants me to do something, I appreciate
them thinking about it before they ask me them being clear and specific

In my relationship, I prefer to be valued for:
my contributions and uniqueness my energy and excitement

When I get into an argument with my spouse, it is more important to
confront the issues at hand make things right

When making a big purchase like buying a car, I tend to base my decision on
my feelings and trust of the seller the appearance and cool options

In my relationship, I value:
finding ways to energizing my relationship integrity and unity

If I had my choice of an activity to do with my partner I would choose
a nice walk in nature white water rafting

If my partner was in a bad mood, I would try to make them feel better by:
taking them out for a fun evening or talking to them about what’s wrong

When my partner and I go over to a close friends place I am more likely to greet them with
a verbal greeting or handshake a hug

In my relationship, I demonstrate love by
being affectionate and romantic the practical things I do for my loved ones

In my relationship it is more important for me to:
strive for a sense of security and trust have frequent and deep conversations

In my relationship it is more important for me to be:
motivating and encouraging helpful and trustworthy

In my romantic relationship, I looked for
a dependable mate a soul mate

In my romantic relationship it is more important
to make my partner happy be safe and secure



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